Thursday, September 19, 2013

What's meant to be, will be.

Guten tag! I’m at my grandparents' house at the moment... sitting in their living room in my PJ’s, writing and relaxing. Mami Jan is next to me, watching BBC documentaries in Persian. It’s been a chill couple of weeks since my return from Berlin. I was pretty stressed out before leaving for my four day trip. I had spent about two weeks gawking at my computer screen, frantically researching my options of what to do next – blow thousands of dollars to backpack through parts of Europe, travel to Thailand or Spain to partake in a TESOL program, or wait it out for an internship. The truth is, I was spending too many hours in front of my laptop, pondering. So about two days before my trip to Berlin, I told myself that I would take a a break from my researching and worrying and would focus on enjoying myself for a full week. Low and behold, upon returning from Berlin I saw an email in my ‘Junk’ folder from a woman named Anna who was requesting an interview with me for an internship. I replied immediately and had a Skype interview scheduled two days later. I heard back from her a handful of days later and learnt that I was being offered the position of a Project Support Intern with an NGO called Radio La Benevolencija. I booked my flight the following day and am thrilled to say that I will be flying out to Kigali on October 15th! I’m really excited about this opportunity. I hope to receive the hands on experience that university failed to provide, whilst contributing to an organization that is making a positive impact in a country that has undergone tremendous hardship. This is what I’ve been hoping for and I’m so grateful that the countless staring contests with my laptop paid off! 

In other news, my beautiful niece Sofia Milan Ebrahimi was born 3 days ago, weighing 7 lbs 8 oz. I am so happy for Zaid, Linda and the kids and I can’t wait to meet her! On October 5th my mum will be joining me in Hamburg, which I’m really looking forward to. It’s been about three months since I last saw her, and I know we’re both happy about having some time together before I leave for Rwanda. I’m happy to know that I have the rest of my time here – roughly one month – to be completely present and stressless. I’m going to continue to enjoy what Hamburg has to offer, and though I wish I could join Iwona and Kasia on their travels through Europe, I just can’t risk being left broke in Africa. So, I’m trying to be financially responsible and make the most of the cards I’ve been dealt! Luckily, this is made easy due to the fact that I have such an amazing family here and spending time with them is so much fun! Since Berlin, I've already attended a baby shower, a birthday celebration, toured Hamburg's new 'Hafen City,' checked out the local circus, gone for great runs with my uncle through neighbourhood park trails, and more! These are happy times :)

One of many beautiful gardens on my running trail.

Hafen City
Carl Busch Circus

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Berlin!

It’s a late Tuesday afternoon and I’m waiting on my bus to start its engine and take me back to Hamburg. I spent the last four days in Berlin! It was a nice trip, though it flew by really fast. I stayed with Greg and he was a great host – I had my own pullout couch to sleep on and everything – he really made me feel at home. (If you’re reading this, thanks again Greg, you’re a great friend!)

I left for Berlin early Saturday morning and arrived at the bus terminal at 2 pm, where Greg was waiting to greet me. From there, we went straight to his house so I could drop off my things. Before we parted ways, Greg gave me some tips on how to figure out Berlin's (super complicated) transit system. I hopped on the u-bahn and headed for the station near Iwona and Kasia’s hostel. I ended up waiting for them outside of a shopping centre because I couldn’t figure out the directions to their hostel. So while sitting around waiting to be found, from behind me I heard a familiar voice say, “are you lost young lady?” Haha, it was SO great to see one of my best friends after so long – in a foreign city nonetheless! The three of us ended up having a lovely day together, as we explored the city and had dinner at a delicious Thai restaurant. From there, we headed back to the girls’ hostel to get ready for a night out. Greg joined us for the night and the four of us checked out a couple of cool places, including a beach-themed rooftop bar, where people were sitting around and listening to live music. We then went to what Greg described as a “club,” but what was really a bar in a basement. The girls and I were keen on experiencing the livelier scene which Berlin is so famous for, so we convinced Greg to take us to Berghain – a club that I’d read about in nearly every “must see” list on Berlin. Greg tried to deter us from going, but finally gave in, which we all very much regretted later. This is because after lining up for about two hours in the freezing cold and watching about 50% of the people in the long line get turned away, we too were turned away by the doorman at Berghain. SO, of all the times I’ve ever been out I’ve never experienced anything remotely close to this – not to say I’m some spoiled, bouncer-schmoozing, expectant girl. But come on, to be turned away in a foreign city? We were all shocked, and Greg was just left shaking his head. So, why were we left to such unfortunate circumstances, do you ask (and why did my poor friend Greg try to convince us not to go to this ridiculous club)? Because (after doing some research I learnt that) Berghain is one of the most exclusive clubs in the world, specifically because of its social engineering. They award entry to people based on who has already gone inside so that you never get too many tourists, or too many straight people, or too many white people, or too many women, or too many coloured people, or too many men, or too many... you get the idea. I learnt that this specific system of selecting who can and cannot be given entry into Berghain is ultimately what makes it “special,” as it ensures an eclectic mix of people are present inside the club at all times. I also learnt that some people (specifically electronic music lovers) make trips to Berlin specifically to attempt (up to several times on any given weekend) to be awarded entry into Berghain. This is made possible for these poor souls because Berghain is open continuously for about 4 days in a row every week – God only knows how that’s possible, and one is left questioning what the hell is going on inside. After that failed adventure we were all exhausted, cold and ready for bed!
Gendarmenmarkt



My second day was spent with just the girls at what was hands down the coolest flea market I’d ever been to. It was massive and sported lots of funky vendors, goods and fashion. The market was nestled alongside a park that was packed with people who were lounging and picnicking on grass fields. There were several live musical acts stationed throughout the park, including a giant communal karaoke event. It was so much fun! From there, the girls and I parted ways, as they were due to take a train to Paris that evening. I spent the second half of my day adventuring on my own. I saw remains of the Berlin Wall, the Brandenburg Gate, the Reichstag, Tiergarten Park, and the Holocaust Memorial. I then walked to Potsdamer Platz, where an Italian Cultural Festival was taking place. It was small, so I checked it out fairly quickly before heading back to Greg’s for some much needed rest. 









The following day was spent with Greg, who did a great job of showing me a local experience of Berlin. We started our day at “Dali Berlin,” an exhibition that I had anticipated seeing since I’d arrived in the city. Salvador Dali’s work is incredible, and to have seen some pieces in the flesh was a real treat. From there, we headed out to a funky, multicultural neighbourhood where we ate delicious Lebanese food at a little place Greg frequents. The shops and cafés in this neighbourhood were great, and when it began raining we had the perfect excuse to check a couple out. Once the rain subsided we saw a handful of other places – including Mauer Garten; the East Berlin Wall Gallery, a beautiful old church that’s been taken over by squatters and artists in protest of the city’s previous attempts at destroying it (where we got to see a small art exhibition); YAAM, a cool reggae beach club that sits along a river where you can find everything from rickety beach chairs to ganja-selling Africans; and finally a view of East Berlin, where we also saw a piece by Banksy (or so the rumors go) sitting proudly against a brick wall. 













Today was my last one in Berlin, and I wanted an early start. After getting up, saying goodbye to Greg before he left for work, and having a quick breakfast, I set off for the famous Pergamon Museum. The museum is located at Museum Island, the name given to the space where several great museums sit alongside each other amidst manicured gardens. Immediately upon walking into Pergamon, I understood the reason behind museum's notoriety, as I was welcomed by the great Zeus Altar from 160 BC. It was so majestic and took my breath away. From thereon out, each subsequent room contained artwork, artefacts and remains from classical antiquity, ancient Islamic empires and the Ancient Near East. It was a great way to spend a few hours. After a quick lunch at Alexander Platz, I headed back to Greg’s to get my things and took a train back to the central bus station, which is where I am now. Overall, it was a solid trip! 








If you’re into the aesthetics of a city, then Berlin may not be for you – it’s a city which is playing catch up over the reality that not too long ago two completely different sociocultural worlds were fused into one. There’s construction happening everywhere, it’s not all that clean, it’s a little unorganized. But, Berlin has a TON to offer pretty much anyone interested in anything – you will find an array of cultures, excellent food, art, music, a night life tailored to all sorts of people. It’s a sprawling city and maneuvering around it can be complicated at times with the impressively complicated transit system, but thankfully you can ask pretty much anyone for help and every sign is translated in English as well. In short, I loved it. It was a great place to spend a few days and I definitely could have spent a few more!